A SECRET LOVE – Review by Susan Wloszczyna

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The best thing about the Netflix documentary A Secret Love is that it treats its female subjects not like radical beings from an less-enlightened age or a history lesson from the past. Instead, we see Terry Donahue and Pat Henschel simply as human beings who fell in love in 1947 but weren’t able to acknowledge the truth of their relationship — given legal and societal barriers — to their conservative families and the world at large for over 60 years.

Director Chris Bolan, who is Terry’s great-nephew, captures the pair in their 80s as they prepare to pack up a home they shared for 21 years and move to an assisted-living facility for health reasons. Using The Odd Couple as a reference, Terry is very much an emotional, big-hearted Felix and Pat is more of a closed-off, spikey Oscar (although she is romantic enough to have penned passionate verses to her partner in life). Terry is a sharer while Pat’s features often shut down when hard decisions are required.

But the move gives the film license to look back on their history, including old photos and home movies, and thanks to Bolan, we get to see the ladies in their glorious, vibrant youth as career gals in the big city and one cherished piece of footage of the two women frolicking in ridiculously garish cone-shaped hats on the beach.

Bolan, however, holds off for a while before revealing Donahue was a catcher in the All-American Girls Professional Baseball League that was the subject of the 1992 film A League of Their Own. We see her playing injured with a cut above one eye and striking poses with those skirted uniforms – the better to reveal their gams. That he was given permission able to include a piece of footage from the actual movie to add context says a lot.

Not to spoil anything, but the move also allows Terry and Pat to finally make their union legal. As the glorious Doris Day song that gives the doc its title, their secret love is no secret anymore.

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Susan Wloszczyna

In her nearly 30 years at USA Today, Susan Wloszczyna interviewed everyone from Vincent Price and Shirley Temple to Julia Roberts and Will Smith. Her coverage specialties include animation, musicals, comedies and any film starring Hayley Mills, Sandy Dennis or hobbits. Her crowning career achievements so far, besides having Terence Stamp place his bare feet in her lap during an interview for The Limey, is convincing the paper to send her to New Zealand twice for set visits, once for The Return of the King and the other for The Chronicles of Narnia and King Kong, and getting to be a zombie extra and interview George Romero in makeup on the set for Land of the Dead. Though not impressive enough for Pulitzer consideration, she also can be blamed for coining the moniker "Frat Pack," often used to describe the comedy clique that includes Ben Stiller, Vince Vaughn and Will Ferrell. Her positions have included Life section copy desk chief for four years and a film reviewer for 12 years. She is currently a contributor for the online awards site Gold Derby and is an Oscar expert for RogerEbert.com. Previously, she has been a freelance film reporter and critic, contributing regularly to RogerEbert.com, MPAA’s The Credits, the Washington Post, AARP The Magazine online and Indiewire as well as being a book reviewer for The Buffalo News. She previously worked as a feature editor at the Niagara Gazette in Niagara Falls, N.Y. A Buffalo native, she earned her bachelor's degree in English at Canisius College and a master's degree in journalism from Syracuse University.